Saturday, January 14, 2017

Episode 6: A Day in the Life of Joel

Welcome to Episode 6 of a day in the life of the youngest offspring in the Stapp household.  These posts are mostly just for me to document what daily life looks like for later when I've forgotten.  I plan on printing up a photo book of all of them someday for our family memory library.  But for now, read on if you'd like to be a fly on the wall in our home.


{Sort of.  It is much more chaotic than it appears.} 

Click.  The 7:00 am star light switches on and a pale stream of light falls across my crib. My sister (age 2) in the crib right next to me begins jumping and yelling "Mo-m! Mo-m!"  I pull myself up and jump along with her.  My mom comes in and I am so excited to see her!  My brother (age 4), rubbing his eyes and yawning, does not exhibit as much morning energy as me and my sister.  Next comes morning hugs, a diaper change for me and bathroom visits for my siblings, clean clothes, and some morning milk for me.  My sister doesn't like to sit still very well for getting her hair brushed because she is in a hurry to look at her books.  My brother is in a hurry to talk.  Once I've tanked up on milk, I'm in a hurry to play and explore!  My siblings and I play in our room, usually with books, hot wheel cars, or duplos, while my mom drinks her tea and spends time with God. When the music starts to repeat itself, my brother and sister clean up while I get to keep playing!  Clean-up time is not their favorite, and lately it's been taking them so long, my mom rescues me and lets me start on breakfast without them! 
Yum, meal time is definitely one of my favorite times of the day.  I eat just about anything as long as I can pick it up and chew it.  Breakfast rotates through oatmeal with applesauce, eggs and toast, and yogurt bowls.  Hooray, my brother and sister finally finished cleaning up and come running in to the kitchen as I start my second serving of breakfast.  I love to watch them do everything.  My brother puts away the clean silverware and my sister puts away the clean bowls and plates out of the dishwasher.  My sister likes to go as fast as she can, and my brother likes to talk and work, which slows him down.  Sometimes, my mom makes up a story.  Micah always ask for a new Frog and Toad story.  While I eat my third round of breakfast, everyone else joins me at the table, finally!  They all work on memorizing kids catechism questions, then my mom reads aloud a chapter of a book.  They just finished Little House in the Big Woods.  I get kinda bored with that stuff, so my mom gets me down and I play with the little kitchen while they finish up eating.  

Nap time for me comes next.  My mom used to call me her best sleeper, but recently I've taken to putting up a fight, but only for a few minutes.  I usually fall asleep sitting in my crib with my head on my lap.  When I wake up, I'm always curious to see what they've been up to while I was asleep.  They usually do one chore and some reading together.  Sometimes, my mom sets the timer for 10 minutes at a time and my siblings take turns getting special time with mom to play whatever they want with her while the other does a preschool activity.  Amelia usually picks reading books together, and Micah something more active like balloon volleyball or a snowball fight.  After that, it just varies.  Sometimes they do puzzles, or play games, or bake bread, or do an experiment.  Lately, Amelia's favorite games have been Go Fish, Uno, and Old Maid, and Micah's favorites have been Memory, Set, and Nerts.  I really want to play those games too, but they sit with their backs to me in a tight circle so I can't get in to destroy those cards.  I look forward to the day I'm invited to play games too!  For now, I entertain myself by pulling books out of the shelf, spices out of the pantry, bath toys out of the bathroom, cars out of the end table drawer, and food off the floor.  I also pull myself up so I can stand as much as I can, but I haven't taken any steps yet. My Dad gives me walking lessons often.

By now, it's late morning.  It takes about twenty minutes for Mom to help us all get on our snow pants, coats, socks, boots, gloves, and hats.  I despise getting my gloves on, but I love getting rides on the sled on our driveway by siblings or mom.  The snow is almost as tall as me, so we can't sled in the yard, but the slick driveway works well.  My brother has been digging tunnels through the yard, and every day my mom walks at least a couple loops through the walking path we're trying to keep carved out through part of the yard.  Amelia has grown alot this winter and has moved from hiding with a blanket over her head on a chair on the porch to pushing her toy lawnmower (her "snowplow") through shoveled areas by herself.  My mom says this is great progress.  
Some days, I ride in the stroller and we head out on a walk, but it depends on traffic volume and the current width of the road since there aren't sidewalks right by our house.  It's been a colder than usual winter I'm told, so we usually just play in our yard for 20-30 minutes before heading in as it is usually 5 - 20 degrees F when we are out.  

About noon, we get ready to eat lunch!  Before Micah comes inside, he has to carry enough wood to last us the rest of the day in the fireplace.  Usually, mom gives a lecture or two about not complaining or grumbling about now.  Dad gets to eat lunch with us six days a week, and it is so fun when he
comes home!  We tell him all about our morning and sometimes he wrestles with us.  After lunch, my brother often heads back outside to play a little longer and my mom reads me and my sister a nap time book and lays us down.  Every time my mom lays me down, I pop back up and laugh! Lately, my sister has been entertaining me during the whole nap time, so Mom told us we shouldn't jump and talk anymore so we can sleep.  Micah gets to play outside or rest on the couch during nap time.  I can't wait until I'm four too!

After nap time, we get snacks!  My sister likes to snuggle with mom for a while after nap because she usually wakes up in a bad mood.  Maybe it's because I wake her up?  The rest of the afternoon, we usually play whatever we want.  My sister likes to color pictures.  My brother likes to jump on the mini-trampoline.  Sometimes we play all together and sometimes by ourselves.  At five, I play with kitchen utensils while my brother and sister help cook dinner.  My brother cuts up cucumbers, cracks eggs, and helps brown meat and measure ingredients.  My sister likes to watch and help stir.  We often listen to fun music while we cook.  Once everything is started, they set the table and then my brother and sister read books to each other.  Sometimes, I'm even patient enough to sit still and listen. If it's a night that Dad will be home for dinner, we run to the garage door and jump on him when he gets home.  At dinner time, we each talk about our high point and low point of the day.  Amelia doesn't understand what a low is and says good things for her high and her low!  She also likes to copy whatever Micah says.  Myself, I just know a few words, like Mama and Dada.  I learned how to say uh-oh this week.  

After dinner, we get to play with Daddy or run around the house playing hide and seek, until 6:30.  Before bed, we read a Bible story and pray together.  My mom helps say the words for my prayer since I can't yet.  Dad has been telling us piano stories, where he tells us a Bible story while he simultaneously illustrates the story with music.  Then it's hugs and kisses time and bed time, sadly.  Have I mentioned that I would rather laugh and stand in my crib than lay down?  

Saturday, December 17, 2016

These are the days of...

Silver Buttons by Bob Graham
One of my new favorite children's books is one I accidentally stumbled across at the library called Silver Buttons by Bob Graham. The entire book is composed of mostly insignificant, everyday things that take place in the span of one minute.  I read it over and over again, reveling in the fact that the mundane moments are actually beautiful and meaningful - a mother practicing a folk song on her instrument while her daughter colors a picture in the messy living room, a little girl "mailing" sticks through the slats in the fence, phones ringing in a thousand pockets.

It should be no surprise to me, I have always been awed by the everyday things.  My favorite part of any movie is the first ten minutes, the setting of the scene, the bits of ordinary before the plot emerges.  In fact, the first (and only) series of books I have written were about a girl named Dot, authored at age six.  I turned out tale after tale about Dot, but the problem was, there were no problems in my books.  I would staple together books out of paper and then start writing, but the plot didn't emerge before I ran out of pages.  I remember my mom trying to kindly help me understand that lengthy passages describing the heroine's family members, articles of clothing, address and phone number, and detailed holiday menus do not exactly constitute a story.

Regardless, daily moments are deeply meaningful to me.  As I've wondered why, I've realized that motherhood is mostly little actions strung together.  Picking up the same toys, washing the same dishes, reading the same books. If only the vacations and weekends and big projects "count", then most of my day is of little value.  I'm so thankful that faithfulness in the little things holds value and beauty.  God sees and is there in EVERYTHING.  The big. The small. And even the moments no one else will ever see or even know about.

In the past several months, one way I've learned to record and delight in the little things is to write occasional lists in my journal titled "These are the days of...", inspired by Emily P. Freeman and her book Simple Tuesday.  What is common and frequent today may end next week as something else takes it place.  I look back with fondness at my "days of" lists from earlier this year and the memories they bring.  Here are some of mine.

December 17, 2016
These are the days of:
- a hearth full of snowy mittens and hats and boots drying by the fire
- hanging cloth diapers to dry on an old umbrella skeleton
- Joel sitting up in his crib when I lay him down and laughing uproariously that he can get out of a sleeping position
- Micah learning his first lessons at the piano
- Amelia and Micah running around the house singing Jingle Bells, We Wish You a Merry Christmas, and Joy to the World
- Walking to church in the snow
- Micah testing the snow to see if it is wet enough to make a snowman
- Amelia yelling "no snowballs me"
- Joel grabbing lights off the Christmas tree until we notice him
- The kids clamoring for Caleb to swing them around and make them go "tick-tock" as soon as he gets home

As one year ends and another begins, what are "these the days of" for you?


Saturday, January 9, 2016

A Day in the Life of Micah (3) and Amelia (15 months)

Here is a day in the life of Micah (3) and Amelia (15 months) from Amelia's perspective.

Micah's New "Room"
I wake up and it's dark in my crib so I pull myself up to my knees, grab the crib bars, and holler.  After a few minutes, Micah stirs in his toddler bed in the adjoining walk-in-closet, and I get excited when I see his star light click on.  "Amelia, it's 7 o'clock! My star light turned on!" announces Micah.  I stop hollering and rock back and forth excitedly "talking"as fast as I can when my mom comes in and turns on the big light.  I have so much to say and I rapidly sign "milk". I gulp it down while she changes my diaper and dresses me.  If I wasn't so busy drinking, I would give some input on what clothes I would like to wear, shaking my head vigorously if I don't agree or hugging them close if I concur.  I pat my head to remind her to fix my hair, but sometimes I have trouble remembering to sit still for her to do it.  Meanwhile, Micah sloooowly takes his pajamas off, goes to the bathroom, and picks out his clothes.  He likes Mom to lay out each clothing item "just so" on the floor so he will know how to put them on, but I like to crawl over the top of them and pick them up.  Micah begs Mom to play with us for a few minutes then she puts up the baby gate and (gasp) leaves the room for us to do playtime while we listen to a silly recording her and Dad made!! This is my least favorite part of the day! She dares to leave my sight!  I am tempted to continuing playing duplos or Mr. Octopus with Micah, but I head for the doorway to rattle the gate and remind Mom I'm still here.  Mom says Micah and I used to play together quietly for half an hour during playtime, but these days Mom can only tolerate a few minutes of my yelling.  

I am desperate to eat breakfast.  Micah sets the table while Mom cooks something.  Sometimes, Micah "makes" breakfast by himself by setting the table with cold cereal and milk.  My favorite breakfast is oatmeal with coconut oil and raisins.  Occasionally, I like eggs, but I try to throw my parents off by remaining unpredictable with my food choices. Micah prefers breakfast burritos or pancakes.  The highlight of the meal for both of us is our gummy vitamins.  I stay pretty quiet once I start eating.  If they forget, I always am the first to remind the family to hold hands and pray.  My Dad and Micah take turns answering catechism questions that Mom asks.  Sometimes, they turn it into a contest.  They both like to win a little too much.
It usually takes me twice as long to finish my breakfast as the rest of the family.  By the time I'm done, Mom has usually cleaned up breakfast and started a load of laundry.  After breakfast, Micah is supposed to put away the clean silverware from the dishwasher.  That takes a long time most days.  My Daddy kisses me goodbye when he leaves for work.  My mom is finishing up making her grocery list so Micah is looking at books on the couch. I dig through our living room toy drawer. 
     Mom and Micah have a morning chore they do together that varies depending on the day of the week.  I try to help too.  Today there is vacuuming going on.  I recently outgrew my fear of the vacuum!  
     Mom says it is time for a nap for me.  I have really been protesting this morning nap since Christmas.  Too many new toys to explore!  I rest quietly in my crib for 25 minutes then decide enough is enough and cry until Mom gets me.  She sets me in the living room with my new plastic tea set to play while she finishes having special time with Micah.  Apparently, while I nap, they do activities together that I would not appreciate, like reading books with too many words, puzzles with too many pieces, and crafts with too many parts.  Today they are playing Uno and Candy Land.  Candy Land is my favorite because I get to play with two game pieces, the directions, and the box while they play.  I'm not supposed to touch the board.  
After special time is over, sometimes we do a workout.  Mom rolls out the mini-trampoline from the garage for Micah to burn energy and we all watch her phone for workout video.  Micah's favorite is using the Sworkit Kids app.  I like to watch the screen and laugh at Mom but don't do much working out.  My favorite part of exercise time is when the app tells them to "take a thirty-second break", because then Mom picks me up and we play tag with Micah around the house.  Today, we don't do a workout because it is Wednesday, and Mom gets to go to the gym by herself after we are in bed.  

Instead, we sit down at the little table for a snack.  My favorite snack is raisins or honey nut cheerios.  Micah's favorite snack is yogurt.  Afterwards, I carefully take all the crayons out of their container while Micah paints with watercolors.  I get bored of this quickly and sign "all done", but not before I manage to color some red marker on my face.  I almost fall out of my chair.  I like to walk while my parents hold my hands, but I can't do it on my own yet.  Everyone says I'll be a later walker like Micah and my Mom both were.

It's lunchtime.  I play with the pretend kitchen, placing the bendy man figurine in and out of the oven, while my Mom gets the food ready.  I whine a few times to let her know I'm ready, and pull out the Tupperware box to do some "sorting".  I like plain food for lunch and carefully peel apart my sandwiches or wraps first to make sure Mom hasn't snuck anything terrible in, like meat or hummus or avocado.  Some days, my Dad gets to come home from work for lunch with us.  Most Mondays we meet him at the middle school to eat lunch with the kids there, and most Tuesdays we meet him at the high school to each lunch there, after we go to story-time at the library.  My parents say Micah and I make pretty good advertising for the church youth group.  I'm not as much of a draw as I used to be though, so it's good my Mom is about to have another baby.

After lunch, we bundle up and go outside for a little snow playtime.  We don't have sidewalks near us and the roads are covered in snow and ice so we don't go on many walks anymore.  I don't really like the snow but my brother does.  He even goes down the snowy slide at the park sometimes.  He also squirts colored water out of a bottle to make designs in the snow in our yard.  For a while, he chose yellow every time, so now Mom doesn't give him a choice and mixes up purple or green.

Back inside, we each get to pick a book or two for Mom to read to us before naptime.  I still prefer books with real pictures but occasionally I'll sit still for The Very Hungry Caterpillar or Goodnight Moon.  My favorite books are the sign language board books from the library.  Micah's favorite book right now is Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
Micah and I both take an afternoon nap.  Most days, my Mom does too.  After nap, we eat a snack and sort laundry.  I like to give my clothes big hugs and wrap them around my neck.  After that, we play until dinner time.  Micah plays alot with his Knexs he got for Christmas.  I like to play with the pieces too.  I give them hugs and stuff them between my neck and my shoulder.  Sometimes my Mom finds them in my clothes later. 

Most of the time, I like to play with my brother.   Sometimes I dump out puzzles for him to put together.  Other times I play the piano while Micah plays the metronome.  I'm getting better at finding ways to occupy myself while my Mom cooks, but I just want to see what's going on. My Dad gets home for dinner and I love to meet him at the door.  Sometimes I sit in front of the door and block it without meaning to and then he can't get in.  Oops.  I get excited to see him.   We have dinner together as a family just about every night.  In the evenings after the rest of my family cleans up the meal, we usually have a little time to play before bedtime.  Micah and I like it when we play games together as a family, like Twister.  I crawl around the special mat and Micah stretches really far.  Other nights, we take a bath.  And some nights, I'm just exhausted and whine until someone asks me if I want to go to bed, to which I respond by giving them a big hug.  I ask frequently throughout the day to brush my teeth and hair, and always at bedtime.  After we are all ready for bed, my Dad reads us a Bible story.  I listen for a few seconds, then fold my hands to try to hurry everyone along to the praying.  They don't seem to listen to my signal until the story is over.  Usually, Micah and I go to bed at 7.  I don't mind, my dolly stays in my crib now, and I get excited each time we are reunited.  I don't like to miss anything, so after my parents lay me down, I usually crawl over to the side of the crib to watch them say goodnight to Micah.  Then they remind me to lay down again.  Goodnight!


Saturday, May 23, 2015

Blogs I Follow

I gain so many ideas and words of encouragement from the various blogs I follow, I thought I would write a quick post to share them with you!

I subscribe to most of these blogs by email.  Sometimes my inbox starts to fill up with too many unread posts, but I no longer feel any regret in just deleting a bunch if I'm in a busy week.  Seriously, why should I have ever felt obligated to read every post in the first place?  It seems a bit ridiculous now.  Other weeks, I soak up every word of these posts because I need the encouragement. Perhaps you might need some too!

Frugal Living
This is the first blog I remember ever following.  Full of store deals, coupons, freebie links, free ebook notifications, etc.  

Healthy Living
One of my favorite all-around blogs that covers healthy living and homemaking topics.  Erin writes in a genuine and easy-to-follow style.

This is my go-to site for learning about natural remedies. I also enjoy the weekly round-up of links.

Motherhood/Intentional Living
I ended up at Kristy's Cottage for encouragement as a pastor's wife (and Kristy even wrote a blog post specifically in response to my question about balancing ministry and mothering littles on Sunday mornings), but I have recently been enjoying her posts on mothering and other topics lately.  Her blog is beautiful and uplifting.

I was first introduced to Leslie Ludy's spiritual writings in my dorm bible study in college, and I am glad she recently started this blog/wrote a book on motherhood.  This is not fluffy, easy-peasy stuff, it gives me spiritual meat to chew on.

The sub-title "Gospel Centered Homemaking" describes it well. 

I highly recommend Rachel Stafford's book by the same title as the blog, I tend to skim her blog posts, but they are good reminders for me to soak up the daily moments with my children and nudge me to not spend too much time looking at my phone or computer.

Misc.
My go-to website for planning date nights with Caleb. If you subscribe to receive the posts by email like I do, you get access to some exclusive printables and other freebies.
 

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

I'm a toddler mom.

Children seated on the alphabet train rug, some with limbs stretched, some with limbs tucked under, some yawning, some chattering.  Some focused intently on the stories, some warily eyeing the other children. Shy, bold, engaged, distracted.

Toddler story time at the library is one of the highlights of each week for my two-year-old, and it has become a comfortable routine for both of us.  For him, the predictable pattern of familiar faces and fast-paced stories, cheery songs and finger plays is much anticipated.  For me, well, everyone knows that baby story time is for the parents more than the children, and toddler story time isn't much different, though I don't see anything wrong with that!  I view it as an opportunity to get out of the house, exchange a few words with other moms, and feel good about myself for bringing my child to a positive, educational activity he enjoys.

However, this particular week was different.  We had a scheduling conflict during toddler story time, but we happened to be at the library when preschool story time was about to begin, so I thought we'd give it a try.  The children were older and calmer, but not much different really.  As far as my son was concerned, this was about the same as normal story time; in fact, I'm not sure he even realized it wasn't the usual.  No, it wasn't the children that made it different.  It was the moms.

Toddler moms come wearing worn tennis shoes or muddy farm boots, prepared to be fleet of foot to chase down children and take on outdoor adventures. Preschool moms gracefully step around in delicate ballet flats or (gasp) high heels.  Toddler moms boast a uniform of boot cut jeans, yoga pants, or leggings with an easy-pull up or down top to quickly nurse the toddler or baby sibling, all coordinated with a baseball cap, top knot bun, or overflowing diaper bag.  Preschool moms wear anything from skinny jeans to business suits, accessorized with manicured fingernails, bangles, earrings, scarves, and make-up.  Toddler moms sit cross-legged on the floor with their child, singing along with Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes and swapping stories with the other moms about night-weaning and potty training.  Preschool moms sit in chairs with their legs crossed at the knee, checking their phones on the sly and observing their child interact.

At first, I wasn't sure whether to be excited that the preschool days evidently involve more sleep and personal care time, or grateful that my son still has the better part of a year before he swaps the label "toddler" for "preschooler" so I will have time to prepare myself for my own title change.  Suddenly, a wave of panic washed over me as I realized that while the toddler moms seemed to have an authentic desire in their frazzled state to make new friends, the preschool moms seemed to be finding their social outlet elsewhere with existing friends.  I felt an urgency I hadn't before, as if the make-mommy-friends clock was ticking and I hadn't realized until now that I was almost out of time and I couldn't turn the clock back.

A new line of thinking entered my head. If I keep having more children, I can keep being a toddler mom without having to move up. Can I always be a toddler mom? I'm just starting to get this down!  Hmmm, if my kids are anything like me, short of stature and young-faced, they could easily pass as younger than they actually are and could attend toddler story time unnoticed for years past their toddler days.  Plus, they'll be so much smarter and well-behaved than the other kids since they'll actually be older......

Oh, but how quickly my mind forgets the Truth.

It is the Lord who goes before you.  He will be with you; He will not leave you or forsake you.  Do not fear or be dismayed. - Deuteronomy 31:8 (ESV) 

The Truth is so simple and straightforward.  Future days and future titles?  The Lord goes with me.  Do I need worry?  No.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. - Hebrews 12:1-2 (ESV)  

Insecurity?  A magic number of friends? A thorough knowledge of what to expect? These verses instruct to me to lay these aside.  Besides, why would I even desire to stay stuck at a pit stop on the race?  What joy is there in that, growing stagnant next to a porta-potty?  Daily, opportunities abound for me to grow in bravery, boldness, forgiveness, and compassion.  I would much rather run full speed ahead with the Lord, throwing off those fears, even if it means arriving at the preschool mom stage.  And after I birth my last child, I'd better start saving for a personal stylist.


Saturday, September 6, 2014

A Day in the Life of Micah: 1 1/2 years old

More than anything, this post is for my benefit so that I can look back on this summer and remember what life was like at our short, five-month stint in our trailer in a gravel pit cottage in the woods.

We moved to Clayton (aptly named since they used to make bricks here and there was "a ton of clay" in the area), about seven miles North of Deer Park, suddenly at the end of April because our landlord wanted to sell our former residence and we couldn't find any rentals available in Deer Park at the time. Since then, we have been inquiring about many rental options in Deer Park to try to get back there before winter sets in, for many, many reasons which I won't go into here.  God opened a door and we will be moving to a great rental in Deer Park soon, which is suddenly bittersweet has we had just started to become accustomed to life in the woods out here.  So, for posterity's sake, here's an average day from Micah's perspective, age 1 1/2, using pictures from the past four months here.


My day usually begins between 6:30-7:00am, or whenever my parents forget to tiptoe quietly enough in the living room.  One of the things my parents appreciate about this house is the blackout blinds in my bedroom, which make it pretty hard for me to tell what time it is.  No problem for me though, because I can reach the light switch from my crib!  As soon as I wake up, I flip the switch and call out "Momma!  Momma!".  By the time she opens the door, I'm usually hopping up and down on my crib mattress--mornings are a high energy time for me!

I'm pretty focused when I get up - breakfast is the first thing on my mind.  Depending on what time I wake up, sometimes I'm forced to wait to eat until my parents finish reading their Bibles on the couch.  In that case, sometimes I sit on the floor and whine, and sometimes I sit on the couch too and pray for people, repeating after my parents one word at a time.  Once, I got an owie.  Every morning I usually reminisce about that time and I say "Yeah, Jesus!" because He answered my prayer.

Breakfast is my favorite meal of the day and it isn't unusual for me to eat almost twice as either of my parents at this meal.  A sample breakfast menu for me includes four pancakes with peanut butter, scrambled eggs, an entire banana or pear, or both, and a piece of toast.  When mom isn't sure what to give me next, I like to make the helpful suggestions of cheerios, toast, or cantaloupe.  

The benefit of me eating so much at breakfast is that it can take a little while, which usually gives my mom a chance to wash the breakfast dishes and work together with dad to pack his lunch.  She's really looking forward to having a dishwasher again at our new house.

Dad says goodbye to me then heads out for the day to go to his fitness class at the gym then on to work. Sometimes, later after he's left, I pretend I'm him.  I put on one of his shoes, have mom help me put on a backpack, and head outside, waving goodbye to mom and giving her a goodbye hug and kiss and telling her I'm going to the car.  I have her shut the door, then I knock a minute later and say hello.  

Next, my mom and I usually exercise.  I like to play with her dumbells to get "strong" while she does an exercise video or routine using an app.  I'm getting better at jumping jacks too.  My favorite parts are when she runs around the house with me and when we do push-ups.  Sometimes I make her exercises more difficult by laying on her back or grabbing her legs and adding extra weight.  My attention span doesn't usually last the whole workout, so I do a puzzle or cook in my kitchen.  

After exercising, we get to go outside!  We run around the circular gravel driveway together and I see how fast I can go.  We play soccer and baseball.  We go on the swing and the slide.  We water the hanging baskets and potted flowers. I help with my little watering can. I also stick my head under the hanging basket so the water that streams out gives me a shower.  While I keep playing with the water, my mom makes phone calls because we don't have reception inside the house.  She used to carry bear spray with us every time we stepped outside.  We haven't seen a bear in our yard in a while now, so she has slacked off on that, but we do frequently see deer and other wildlife just feet away.  I have my parents catch crickets and frogs for me so I can watch them in my bug catcher.  

Back at the beginning of the summer, mom would occasionally take me on a run in the jogging stroller.  But then, our neighbor got chased by a bear for a quarter mile on his bike on this road, so the jogs came to an end.  I didn't like how bumpy the gravel road was anyway.

Earlier in the summer as well, wildflowers bloomed in the woods right around our house, so I helped mom pick a few bouquets.  As you can see in the picture, I'm still wet from my hanging basket shower.  At this point in the morning, it's getting pretty hot outside, so we head indoors to do our chores together.  Mom has a list of chores depending on the day of the week - some we do together during our chore time and some she does when I'm napping.  Some of our together chores are sweeping, dusting, and vacuuming.  I help with the sweeping and dusting.  I don't help with the vacuuming. I go and bring mom the Beco carrier so she can wear me up and away from the vacuum.  I do not like the vacuum.  

After our chores, I play a little bit, sometimes with mom, sometimes by myself.  We eat lunch around 11:30.  On certain days of the week, Dad comes home for lunch.  Other days, he eats his lunch at work because it's half an hour round trip to go from work to home.  I prefer it when Dad is there.  I usually don't eat that much at lunch because I'm still full from my breakfast.  My favorite lunch foods are peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and broccoli. Sometimes I get lucky and my mom buys hummus.  But ranch is a great substitute!  Or ketchup! I love to dip.  

Between 12:00-12:30, I head down for a nap.  We usually read some books together first.  Some of my current favorites are Soup Day, Trains, Caps for Sale, and a counting book.  I usually nap for around two hours, sometimes a little more or less.  My mom usually does thirty minutes of chores then works on other projects or even takes a nap too!  

After my nap, I always ask for a snack.  Fruit or crackers are probably my favorite snacks.  The rest of the afternoon varies from day to day.  Usually, there is a load of laundry to be sorted and folded.  Sometimes I help by putting away dishcloths and other small things.  Every other day, my mom washes diapers so I hand them up to her to hang out on the back porch to dry.  Recently, my mom has started doing "school" with me. I really like it.  I am working on learning to draw circles right now with crayons.  We make them into smiley faces.  I get to put a round sticker on my page when I'm done and we hang it carefully on the fridge.  Mom's trying to teach me my colors.  I can say them all, but I have a hard time matching them up with the right color successfully.  I don't do it on demand, but if you listen carefully, you might catch me counting from 1-10 as I play.  Sometimes, mom has a special "school"activity for, me, like playing with shaving cream, and painting the swing set with water.    

It can be a rough hour when mom makes dinner, because I like to help and see everything, and I get in the way.  Occasionally, I'll help out by reading books quietly.  Most of the time though, I like to be in the thick of it.  After dinner, I sometimes take a bath.  Back in my room, I like to goof of with some of my baby sister's things - lay in her bouncer, climb over her carseat, hold her baby doll.  Then, it's pajamas, teeth, and potty, then Dad reads me my Bible story.  I really like my new Bible (The Jesus Storybook Bible).  Then I pray with parents, repeating after them one word at a time.  I especially like to pray for my grandparents, uncles, and aunts.  Then it's off to bed, usually between 7:00-7:30.  I usually ask to go potty, again, at least a couple extra times, if they put up with it.  Goodnight!

Thursday, January 9, 2014

How I Prep Meals for the Week


Due to request, here is a post about my current food prepping routine.  I say current because what I am going to share with you is the routine I have used for only a few months.  One of the surprises I wasn't expecting when Micah arrived was how much he ended up influencing (that seems like a much nicer word than interrupting, don't you think?) my cooking routines!  For the longest time after he was born, it seemed like such a struggle to be able to cook dinner and have it ready in time before we needed to leave for church or youth group or wherever we were off to because Micah would suddenly need to nurse at 4:30 or, need a diaper change, or want someone to play with him...

I began to brainstorm how I could prepare more ahead of time so the dinner hour wasn't as stressful and so I could flex better with whatever comes up.  I don't use the crockpot much because I have very few good crockpot recipes that meet my pretty stringent health and frugality standards (although I'll take any suggestions!).  I have done some freezer cooking on and off for the past few years, but, again, alot of the recipes out there aren't really that healthy and often have that "freezer" flavor.  {Sidenote: I do admire those of you who prepare freezer meals on a regular basis! Way to go!}

The routine I finally landed that has been working well for us for a few months now is two-fold: 1. freeze meal "building blocks" and 2. spend an hour or so prepping fresh products at the beginning of the week for quick use later.  This is the most helpful when I have a meal plan set in place.  I would like to get better and a little more specific at menu planning, but I sometimes still do go "off-the-cuff", particularly on the weekend.  However,  I try to at least take the time each week to figure out seven dinner meals.  Then, I pick and choose as I get to each day which meal to serve that night, usually based on what leftover ingredients are in the fridge and what fresh produce needs to be used up first.

Freezing Building Blocks
Sporadically throughout the week, I freeze ingredients for later use that can be thrown together to make quick meals.  This gives me more flexibility and is much quicker for me than freezing whole meals in my personal experience.  Most of the items I freeze are items that others typically purchase already frozen or canned, but I choose to buy fresh, process, and freeze myself in order to save money.  Here is what you can typically find in my freezer (and yes, I am lucky enough to have a chest freezer):

  • Meal-sized portions of raw meat (chicken, ground turkey, pork cutlets, fish - all usually purchased on sale in jumbo packages)
  • Cooked beans (garbanzo, pinto, white, etc. - purchased dry then soaked and cooked, often in the crockpot)
  • "Refried" beans (homemade in the crockpot)
  • Bone broth in large portions for making soups (also homemade in the crockpot)
  • Bone broth in an ice cube tray to add flavor and moisture to recipes in smaller amounts
  • A ziploc bag of vegetable "waste" - carrot tops and peelings, celery leaves, onion ends, etc. (to throw in the crockpot the next time I make broth)
  • Homemade brown-n-serve wheat rolls
  • Bread crumbs (made by using the blender on old bread or on homemade bread recipe fails)
  • Soup in lunch-sized portions (I usually try to make an extra large batch of soup when cooking it for dinner so that I have extra for lunch the next day and to freeze as well)
  • Berries and peaches (u-picked in the summer then frozen)
  • Peeled bananas (purchased when they go on sale then frozen for smoothies)
  • Waffles or pancakes (watch out though because bread products only stay fresh in the freezer for a couple months unlike the much longer freezer life of meats and fruits)
  • Homemade chili
  • Homemade spaghetti sauce (some dinner-sized portions with ground meat, some lunch-sized portions and pizza-sized portions without meat to save on cost)
  • Homemade pizza dough 
  • Shredded cheese (mozzarella and cheddar, usually purchased in jumbo bags at Cash n Carry then divided up into smaller portions and frozen)
  • Taco meat and beans
  • Butter (purchased when it goes on sale for less than $2 then thrown in the freezer right in the box)
  • Store-bought loaf of bread (An emergency loaf in case I run out)
  • Tortillas (purchased in bulk for a cheaper price, then frozen in the packaging)
I find freezing in smaller portions helps me to be less wasteful, stretch costlier ingredients such as meat to last for more meals, and quickly thaw what I need when I forget to take it out ahead of time!  

Sunday Prep
Sunday afternoon I usually take an hour or so to do some food preparation of the fresh ingredients I use, mainly vegetables.  This usually involves a lot of chopping, slicing, and dicing.  It depends on the week and what meals I have "scheduled", but here is an example of what I did last Sunday:
  • Made a large lettuce, spinach, and shredded carrot salad (should last us several meals)
  • Made a large veggie platter - sliced carrot and celery sticks, broccoli and cauliflower florets, bell pepper, cucumber - and a dip to make the veggies more appetizing for snacking (I did a mexican-flavored dip using salsa, cumin, cilantro, avacado, and fat-free plain greek yogurt)
  • Containers of veggies for use in specific recipes for the first few days of the week: chopped onion, celery, and pepper for cajun chicken and rice, sliced onion and pepper for cajun chicken pasta (I guess we like cajun??), and steamed veggies for Micah to eat when we are having hard veggies he can't chew, like salad or carrot sticks
  • Grilled chicken (Caleb actually did this for me, and it was so nice having cooked chicken around the whole week to dice on top of big salads for lunch and to add quickly to my dinner recipes)
  • I didn't do this last week, but I usually chop a bunch of mixed veggies that I can quickly stir-fry together for a lunch meal
I also usually pull out any mysterious containers from the fridge and figure out how to use them in the next week.  I'm usually pretty good about using leftovers in other meals, like leftover rice in a soup, for example, but occasionally I do have to throw something out when I do this :( .  

Well, there you have it!  There is my current system.  Hopefully you may find a a tip or two that may help you. 

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

2013 Recap

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Another year gone by.... the second half of the year seemed to slip through my fingers especially quickly.  I almost always appreciate the opportunity a new year brings to contemplate and summarize the year that has just left, but rarely do I know where or how to start.  So, here are some of our favorite books of the year instead!



Our Favorite Children's Books in 2013

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Each page features a different animal and the sound it makes...Micah loves having this book read to him over and over again, his top favorite sound being the panda "snuffling".  

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Caleb's favorite is this tale of piggies making a mess baking in the kitchen,which seems like a disaster until momma piggy comes home...for her surprise birthday party!

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This book won me over with its soft-toned illustrations and sweet story.

Most Influential Book of 2013:
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Caleb led our small group through a video series based on this book and both the videos and book were influential in shaping our vision for our family and parenting.  We highly recommend this one!

Most-Referred to Parenting Book of 2013:
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This book was full of new information for me and we ended up using the approach outlined in the book, which worked really well for us, not to mention saved us hundreds of dollars.

Friday, July 19, 2013

Tim's Visit Through Pictures

My youngest brother, Tim, came for a 2 week visit to Deer Park!  We enjoyed spending time with him and having an excuse to go on more adventures.  I'll share some of the pictures we took while he was here.

The classic Radio Flyer Wagon slide at Riverfront Park


Enjoying the fountains at Spokane's Riverfront Park









Picnic with the extended Stapp family in Sandpoint, Idaho








Beating the heat indoors playing Settlers of Catan

Climbing trees after strawberry picking

  
Micah's first lake experience in Sandpoint











Micah watching the chickens at the strawberry farm
What a mess!
Micah's first farm fresh strawberry




Tim's first time cherry picking
On a walk
Touring the gardens at Manito Park